i'm single and very happy

Is it wrong to become single? most people maybe it becoming a big problem because of the culture, religion, or their needs. especially in east culture like where i live, being a single is a big problem, even it become a big issue

lots people thing become a widow is much better than never get married at all, at least u've been married but get fail otherwise never get married at all as no one ever wants you, but in east culture like Indonesia becoming a widow is worse than an old virgin. Community will harassing you just because you are a widow cos they afraid if you will take their husband or at lease tempt theirs. because if you are a widow so you already know the favors of making love,and you will search it even you know it's a sin. But if you are a virgin so you will keep it until you get married. you won't care with who you can get the favor, with a single too or with someone who already married. So house wife will get more fear if you are a widow than an old virgin

But, is it wrong becoming a single? if single is an option for some people how the community can judge them. Some single maybe don't want to being a single, they still have dream to get someone who really love him/her, who adore her, the one who can make them feel save and complete but they don't find him/her, or some people really don't need some one in their live cos they already feel complete. but community will think if they are a gay even they just wanna to be alone for a while. Especially if it concern with ages, is it wrong being single if you are still a single even you are old?

So guys..whoever you are...and if you still single don't be scare, just don't care about what people think. If you enjoy for who you are right now just enjoy it without afraid what people will think bout you, cos who ever you are is you are, sometimes if you really comfortable with who you are now so everyone who look at you will get comfortable too.