What is the virginity?

For many people especially in East culture, virginity is very important. is a girl lose her virginity so her status become very disgraceful in community. so no wonder if indonesian women keep it so gently or she took to do an operated to become virgin than being disgraceful.

on the other hand, at West culture viginity becoming a taboo if a grown women still got her virgin. people will think that no one want her or or she is not a woman. even many she get disgraceful from her friends if they know bout it. they will think she is not popular or geeg.


this far is the difference and complex between east and west bout virginity, what is virginity actually? in medical it mean the torn of hymen from a woman because of something, so losing the virginity cold be a taboo or a mark that she already become a lady.

but the hymen can be torn not just because intimate relationship, such as sport like bike or another physical sport like gymnastic or karate because they used so many move and risk

so if a girl lost her virginity due an accident is the community has rights to judge her badly? or if she want to keep it just for her husband her friends have the right to disgraceful her? which one is more important? losing it cos an accident or still virgin even she got sleep with so many people but her hype didn't torn?

for me it all came from the heart. we can't judge no one if we don't know who she is and what do she want. she has the right to gives her virginity to anyone she want or she loved if she want to without thinking what people will think what she is. just educate her what will happen if she already give it to some and if she did not play save. educate them not just with the medical education but also with the religion. and let them choose what the best she can take.