This week i've got a good learn from cyber. I've been on line since 2000 and for this almost 9 years i was diving in internet many of good and bad things i've been learning and know about them.
And one of miracles happened to me this week. I know a guy from Tagged, his name is David Johnson and he said he is from Scotland UK but he is now at a journey work in Filand, he is a good looking guy, with a fitness body and charm one, i know every girls and lady will fall in love with him when they look at his picture, and he is good with romantic too..
After we know just 3 days, he asked my phone number and my address in Indonesia, and with my foolish i gave them to him, just like a stupid girl who get spell he gave me some nice and romantic words, he always said that he will come to Indonesia next year to marry me, and he already send me a package from UK.
I got sock to hear this, how come he already send me a package after we known just 3 days, and he said he done that just to prove me that he really in love with me, he said than inside the package there are 5 set of Diamond necklaces, 5 set of gold necklace, 3 set of gold woman watch, 2 mobile phone, 1 laptop, and money about 10.000 poundsterling.But if the package arrive and i wanna took it i must pay Airport Clearance 550 USD.
Can u imagine how floatering you are as a woman, that a guy already give you such things, but lucky me just because i am a poor girl, and live in simple life, i don't have that much money for pay the clearence. David told me to borrow the money from someone and i can pay it back when i already get the package, but i didn't do that. i already prepare that if the courier call me on my mobile phone and ask me to take it on the airport in Indonesia so i will borrow some money from my family and neighbors.
At day 5th, i've got call from Malaysia, and he said that i've got the package from David in Malaysia and i must pay it by Western Union about almost 2000 ringgit. and worlwide global services UK already put my package in Malaysia. this statement makes me dilemma, if the package is in Indonesia i will pay it but it is in Malaysia, i don't know how to send a money by Western Union and beside that i don't have that lots of money, when i asked David about this he never answer me but just email me with romantic words at his mail.
And finally i got the decision, i reply the courier back and ask them to send it back to david in UK. after i send the email, Malaysia call me again but i didn't answered it. I really don't know if i've done the right things, but my feelings told me to do that.
and last night David chat with me after 2 days he was disappear, he asked me if i get the package and i said i didn't take it and ask them to send it back. and he got angry with me, he said that i didn't think it will cost him another charge when returned, and i said no. he just said thanks and left me.
And this is my first time i feel so lucky to be a poor and life in simple. if i got money maybe i will pay it and got fooled just because of it. thanks God i didn't get glare about money or jewelry and such things like that.
And for you girls, i asked you one things, never believe anythings from Internet and always get focus and trust your feelings.Believe me it works
Sunday, August 16, 2009
In Love and Get Fooled by Scammer
Monday, August 3, 2009
Mbah Surip we love u full
today there is a sorrow news from Indonesia, Our musician Mbah Surip has gone in peace today at 10.30 at Jakarta. His songs like "Tak Gendong" or "bangun tidur" always remind in our mind.
many suggestion came from his death, some say he got diarrhea, some said before he died his mount full of frothy, some said he got heart attack, some said he got tired, we still dont know what really happend to him, but he already gone and left us a deep sorrow from his lost.
not just children who like his songs but everybody who hear them will not lose the smiles from their lips...
for Mbah Surip, We Love You Full, and we will not forget to remember you and you unique songs ever...
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
MANOHARA,
About 2,5 month in Indonesian entertainmen always talk bout Manohara, but who is Manohara??
Manohara is a model girl, 17 years old and get married with a Prince in Kelantan Malaysia. Can you imagine? a 17 Years old and has to be married? isn't too young? but if you must married with a Prince? you don't have to think bout age right? a prince..who can denied it..
With supported by her mother so she get married with the prince, just like Cinderella hopefully will ending happily ever after, but unfortunately the Prince Charming had a problem with his mind, he's just a little bit psyco, something wrong with his mind, especially with his imagine of sex, Manohara said that The Prince like to strain her such like cutting her boobs with razor blade, or she can't go out and if she does so she must put a smile on her face and show the world nothing happened, abuse her in un spot part of her bodies.
But it's all just her description, Her mother Daisy said that Manohara already get kidnap when they were in Jeddah, The Prince and his lacquey force her to get into his plain even Manohara didn't want to, after that her mother always go to the media to tell Indonesian peoples to supported her, but she never showed Indonesian people the proved or evidence
Just this monday, when the Kelantan King get sick n must go to Singapore Hospital, Daisy and her backup Datok Kadar Syah went to Singapore and based on what Manohara and Her Mother told the press we can thought or made a conclusion that Daisy kidnap Manohara back and fled to Indonesia.
And until this time, Manohara and her family become an artist, they always on TV in every channel and told the same stories and haven't show any evidence just talk and talk..
As an Indonesian, i support Manohara and her family if what she said is true and evidence is true and can be proved, but if they only talk in media and debate an empty talk so we can supported them right? If we must get war to Malaysia to supported her i agree but me must have any evidence and the police must ensure the right, coz i already get sick with Malaysia bout Ambalat, Gelang Sipatu Gelang song, Reog Ponorogo and Angklung, and i'm sure i am not alone. But with no evidence...hmm...
FREE PRITA M
I know bout her problem in TV and i really get concerned bout her problem. Is this an indonesian law that we can speak out lout even with our friends bout what happened with our self?
If Omni International Hospital really a good hospital so it can receive a complain by its costumer, not just being a prosecutor, court and then become an executor. Indonesia has a law and every people has the right to feel it.
And what about the freedom to revealed the mind, if just emailing friends and tell them what just happened to us we've got to go to jail...well it really un understanding and unacceptable
So Let Prita M Free.. Where is your heart if u see 2 babies cried out loud calling for their mother? Where is your head if just by mailing you can get a arrested? Let Prita M Free and give her name back again and let the law handle it all coz OMNI International Hospital is not a Law
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
What is the virginity?
For many people especially in East culture, virginity is very important. is a girl lose her virginity so her status become very disgraceful in community. so no wonder if indonesian women keep it so gently or she took to do an operated to become virgin than being disgraceful.
on the other hand, at West culture viginity becoming a taboo if a grown women still got her virgin. people will think that no one want her or or she is not a woman. even many she get disgraceful from her friends if they know bout it. they will think she is not popular or geeg.
this far is the difference and complex between east and west bout virginity, what is virginity actually? in medical it mean the torn of hymen from a woman because of something, so losing the virginity cold be a taboo or a mark that she already become a lady.
but the hymen can be torn not just because intimate relationship, such as sport like bike or another physical sport like gymnastic or karate because they used so many move and risk
so if a girl lost her virginity due an accident is the community has rights to judge her badly? or if she want to keep it just for her husband her friends have the right to disgraceful her? which one is more important? losing it cos an accident or still virgin even she got sleep with so many people but her hype didn't torn?
for me it all came from the heart. we can't judge no one if we don't know who she is and what do she want. she has the right to gives her virginity to anyone she want or she loved if she want to without thinking what people will think what she is. just educate her what will happen if she already give it to some and if she did not play save. educate them not just with the medical education but also with the religion. and let them choose what the best she can take.